That really is my goal every time I sit down to write a post. I try to really say exactly what I mean. No sugarcoat. No soft stepping. But after a little more than a month of writing these posts I have found that I am not always as successful as I had hoped.
In rereading many of them, I find that I hit some of the key points I was trying to say and I definitely get the gist across. But in many of them, I found later that there was something more that needed to be said. Something that I could have said better to have been more clear.
The funny thing is, I didn’t really figure this out by rereading my own words. I always write, proofread, and proofread again before I post anything. And when I began to go back and reread my posts, I still didn’t catch what I missed. It was only when I read all of your comments that I saw the clarification. That I really saw how I missed some key points.
That is why today I am asking all of you to comment more. Don’t miss any opportunity to point out something that strikes you as needing to be said. To keep me accountable. Tell me what you think of what I am saying. Tell me if I missed something. Tell me if I am off base. I really want to provide the best possible information, counseling and advice I can.
Even though this whole blog thing was my idea. It was always about you and me. Everything I do, I make it about me. I want to do my best because it is about me and my integrity. But it is also about you. What you need. What will help you. What will benefit you and your marriage.
I hope to see more of you communicating and all of you communicating more. Thanks. I really enjoy everyday with this blog and with all of you.